Announcement comes a day after Lindsay Lohan and Samantha Ronson confirmed their relationship. By Gil Kaufman Clay Aiken Photo: Al Pereira/ WireImage "It was the first decision I made as a father," Clay Aiken told People magazine of his decision to stop dodging questions about his sexuality. The article's headline said it all: "Yes, I'm Gay." "I cannot raise a child to lie or to hide things," the singer said. "I wasn't raised that way, and I'm not going to raise a child ...