McDreamy's no McSteamy, Patrick Dempsey admits. “I’m not Eric Dane — McSteamy is in perfect shape” the Grey's Anatomy actor, 42, tells the new issue of Parade (out Sunday). “I definitely have pec envy. There’s a lot of pressure being a man in this town.” He says his wife of eight years, Jillian, also helps keep him grounded. “She always says in the morning, ‘They should see you now!’” Dempsey jokes. Dempsey says fame “gets very heady ... you’ve got to be ...